Saturday, February 26, 2022

Review: A Contemporary Handbook for Weddings and Funerals and other services

 

Many denominations have liturgies that they put forth for weddings, funerals, and other services. Sometimes these are mandated; sometimes they are one option. If you are of the latter group, you may be helped by A Contemporary Handbook for Weddings and Funerals and other occasions (revised and updated edition) edited by Aubrey Malphurs, Keith Willhite, and Dennis Hillman.

As one would expect from the title, the first two – and major – sections of the book deal with weddings and funerals. Each presents a variety of contemporary liturgies, sample “messages,” and “helps” such as prayers and other “incidentals.”  The funeral section also includes perspectives on death and dying that may be helpful in counseling and service preparation.

The third section deals with other occasion, liturgies, and issues that may arise:  What if you use a bread machine to make the communion bread? How should Christmas be celebrated? There are sample “messages” for Mother’s Day and earth day, the installation of a minister, and the closing of a church, etc.

This book came out of the request from Dallas theological seminary from students and others to provide “fresh” liturgies (13).

The book contains a list of contributors, resources, and a Scripture index.

I have three responses to this book:

First, I am not against new liturgies, so long as they are biblical and appropriate to a worship service.

Second, in using this book, I would not neglect knowing older liturgies and understanding why they were written as they were.

And third, I would caution those who use this book not to simple preach the “messages” in the book. They are there for inspiration and guidance, not to be plagiarized.

That being said, this can be a helpful manual as ministers seek to preside at weddings, funerals, and other occasions.

I received this book for free from Kregel Academic in exchange for an honest review.

[This review appears on my blog, Amazon.com, Kregel.com, and Goodreads.com].

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